Stephanie update
Posted by stephanie on March 21st, 2008
She is no longer able to post anymore. We are down to weeks, days , maybe hours. We have stopped all chemo. She is not in pain and is at peace. Thank you for all your prayers and support.
John
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March 21st, 2008 at 11:29 am
John, May the God of Peace and Comfort be with you and your family during this time. My heart is with you. Pamela
March 21st, 2008 at 1:20 pm
Dear John:
I learned of Stephanie through a mutual friend. I, too, lost a loved one through breast cancer (my sister). My husband and I are lifting you and your family up at this time and in the days to come. Stephanie’s legacy will live on, just as my sister’s has. God bless you.
March 21st, 2008 at 2:44 pm
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. May God give you comfort and surround you with his love and mercy at this difficult time. Always remember she was such an inspiration to many people and her legacy will live on.
Love & peace in Christ name,
The Robertson Family
March 21st, 2008 at 9:17 pm
We are having trouble accepting this scenario. We knew it was to come to this, Stephanie spoke of this time….we all just wanted it to stay in the far future….never actually happen. We love you and are praying for comfort and peace for all of you. This just shouldn’t have happened!
Love, Jim, Connie, & Erin
March 22nd, 2008 at 10:04 am
John, Jennifer and David,
All of us are hurting with you and for you. Stephanie has taken residence in a huge part of my heart.
Prayers and Peace,
Amy
March 22nd, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Steph, John, David and Jennifer,
I am blessed and honored to have God place you all in my life. Steph and David will forever be in my heart and on my mind with wonderful memories in LA. I know that God placed you all in my path for a reason. I am praying for you all and know that Steph will forever be in peace with Him.
Love,
Suzi - Team Talent!
March 22nd, 2008 at 10:11 pm
Stephanie, John, Jennifer, & David
Our prayers and love continue. May you all receive his peace, strength, and courage. We will always keep you in our heart.
March 22nd, 2008 at 11:04 pm
Stephanie & David,
I am blessed to have met you both, albeit briefly. How amazing the two of you are. The bond between mother and son will never be broken and the light you cast on us all. Prayers from the Wilder household to you and yours: the smiles you have given us will always shine brightly in our hearts.
March 23rd, 2008 at 8:00 pm
John, David, Jennifer, Stefani you are such a roll model for all of those, especially me, for the courage to fight, to never loose faith, to trust in the Lord and to always love our family and friends. Thank you Stephanie!
Sherry…Survivor…Team Talent
March 23rd, 2008 at 11:35 pm
It has been my honor and privilege to care for Stephanie this past 6 months. As I have gotten to know her I realized what a woman of strength she was, an inspiration to me and many many other people. We shared hugs and love over these months and I am so saddened at the rapid progression of her disease. I know she hoped her breast cancer would help other women as it was so unusual for it to take the road it did. I was also so privileged to meet her sweet mom on many occasions, and we also shared hugs and tears, now this is a woman of strength too.
I know I will see her again in a better place and there she will be well enough for her to do a triathlon!
Thank you for sharing her with me, I love her too and this is just so hard for those of us at the clinic who love and care for her. Let us know if we can do anything for you all.
With much love and prayers for you all, I know how much she loved you all for she talked to me often about it, and she spoke with such great pride and love of her boys.
Dorothy Head, Patient Navigator and breast cancer survivor
March 24th, 2008 at 7:18 am
John, Jennifer and David,
No words can really express my feelings, but I want you to know what an impact Stephanie made on my heart in just a few days in LA. You are so lucky to have such a beautiful (inside & out) mom and wife. She is truly a gift from God. My heart goes out to you all.
Love,
Mary
Team Talent
March 24th, 2008 at 8:02 am
Dear Stephanie and Family,
My last website check was ok news, & so, was unprepared for this update. John, if you would please tell Stephanie that I am thinking of her and you all and send her a hug of love. I’ll call her mom to offer whatever might be helpful.
Prayerfully, De Ann
March 24th, 2008 at 8:06 am
Stephanie, Like you wanted- you lived, you loved, and you laughed and you shared it with all around you. Now you will exit the way you wanted - with grace, peace, and dignity. I am so glad that I am in your -dash-. I love you, you are forever my one and only HCF
Kathe
March 24th, 2008 at 9:43 am
Dear John, Stephanie, Jennifer and David,
We were all praying that this time would not have to come to you. We are heartbroken for you. We share your pain and we continue to pray mightily for comfort and strength for all of you. Stephanie is truly a gift from God and we will always treasure knowing her. She has a tremendous spirit and we are all better for knowing her and sharing her time here. She changed all of us for the better. I know she has tremendous love for you and she will be with you always.
With love and continued prayers,
Lynn and Larry
March 24th, 2008 at 11:46 am
My heart goes out to you and your entire family!!! Stephanie is such an inspiration to all the lives she has touched.
With continued prayers,
Ronnie
March 24th, 2008 at 3:38 pm
I’ve checked this site often since Kathe told me about it and was not ready for this update. I so enjoyed visiting with Stephanie at Bunko last month. What an inspiration she has been through all of this! I continue to think of all of you almost constantly and will continue to lift all of you up in prayer.
Vicky
March 24th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
Steph,
I’ve struggled with what to say…. But not saying anything isn’t in my nature. I love you. I admire you. You have such a quiet strength about you. You have been such a blessing to my life. I’m praying for all of you. I’ll keep walking for you.
Grace and Peace,
d.
March 24th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
Just know that Cory and I continue to pray for Steph, John, Jenn and David. We love you.
March 25th, 2008 at 6:30 am
Dear Stephanie,
My mom just told me that you are not doing well, Stephanie. I just found out. I scanned the posts here - you have been amazingly strong and upbeat. I wish I could get to FW to say Hi and goodbye - for now. Please know you are in my prayers as are your mom and dad.
Remember the backwards dance at Heights our freshman year? Seems like it was just yesterday. I wish I could do something other than pray for you, for your kids and husband, and for your Mom and Dad.
God’s peace, Stephanie - save me a seat in heaven in case I make it there, too.
All my love to you and your parents, Michael
michael.burns@utsa.edu
March 25th, 2008 at 1:39 pm
We are praying for all of Stephanie’s family…..We are glad our prayers are answered about Stephanie’s peace, dignified, pain free final chapter. We pray that all who love her can be comforted by God’s grace and know that she would want ALL to carry on with the strength and dignity she displayed. We are just down the road, so if you need anything don’t hesitate to ask. Ridge enjoys playing Xbox 360 with David almost every night via the headphones/internet. If he or we can offer any rides or any other assistance, we are here for the asking. All of us need our friends in time of need………….Prayers for all………as Stephanie crosses over into “Glory Land”. Love, Teresa, Lundy, Hayley and Ridge Cavender
March 25th, 2008 at 2:03 pm
I just wanted to say how blessed I am to have met you and David. I know that God doesn’t make mistakes, and Team Talent was meant to know you and love you and your family. My prayers are with you every day. I love you and am honored to have even been a small part of your life!
love,
cissa
March 25th, 2008 at 4:22 pm
John - you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything at all that we can do for you just holler.
Love, The Powells
March 26th, 2008 at 1:12 pm
“Coach Stephanie”
I first met Stephanie when she coached baseball at Blue Raiders with Coach Mike (Sullivan) and Coach Tommy (Vasquez). My son Matthew was 8 years old (he’s a junior in high school now). What I remember most was how Stephanie could motivate, teach, and praise all the children. During practices and games, she handed out these cool, “star” pins to put on the kid’s baseball caps. She would always find a special play, improvement, good sportsmanship, etc. as a reason to give one of the stars. Whereas a lot of the baseball memorabilla, trophies, etc. have disappeared–we still have that cap! I can still visualize/hear Stephanie’s voice, her smile, her laughs, and “high-fives.” I like to imagine this same kind of welcome for her as she arrives in Heaven.
Like all of these posts, I feel blessed and honored to have known Stephanie. She demonstrates true love.
My family will continue to pray for Stephanie and her beloved family.
Love, The Hightowers
March 27th, 2008 at 8:09 am
I am Kim Coen’s sister-in-law from Anderson, IN & have had Stephanie on our prayer bulletin for quite some time (I work at Madison Park Church in Pastoral Care). Please know that all of your family are in our prayers here at MP. My heart aches for you, John, your kids, Stephanie’s parents & all her extended family. Please know that God loves you & He is in control!
Blessings to all of you!
Love,
Debbie McCafferty
March 27th, 2008 at 7:09 pm
Stephanie and family, I do not know any of you but my mother, Sammie Stephens, is very good friends with Joan. I have kept up with you during your battle with breast cancer. I am also a nurse and my name is also Stephanie. I think our moms thought we had alot in common due to that. My mother had breast cancer several years ago and I will always remember the emotions that go along with it. You are such an inspiration to me. I have never heard of anyone being so courageous, “ready for battle”, and fighting the fight as you have. Your faith has carried you down this long road and your strong faith will continue with your family. My children attend All Saints Episcopal School and you and the family have been on the prayer list there for awhile. We will continue to pray for you and will always remember your dignity and courage you have shown throughout your life.
March 27th, 2008 at 7:10 pm
John, Stephanie, Jennifer & David
We have prayed that this time wouldn’t come. We continue to pray for you guys.
Stephanie has been such an inspiration to all of us “GAWORSKI’S”
She has showed us how to LIVE-LAUGH-LOVE.
She is such a special sister-in-law and she loves you & the kids so much
She will be with you always.
Love
Karen & Al
March 28th, 2008 at 2:47 pm
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND FAMILY STEPHANIE==YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN LIKE OUR OWN DAUGHTER==THANKS FOR BEING PART OF OUR FAMILY==WE WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU==MOM AND DAD
March 29th, 2008 at 5:55 am
We think about you and pray for you daily. Nothing is too small to ask if we can be of help — in any way.
Doug, Brooke, and Clarke
March 29th, 2008 at 5:06 pm
John, David and Jennifer~
Our hearts have been very heavy these past few weeks as we have visited and been continually lifting Stephanie and your precious family up to the Lord. God has richly blessed us with many awesome friends through the wonderful world of baseball…and you all hold a very special place in our hearts. May God continue to grant you peace, strength and comfort as you travel this road…just always remember you are not alone!!!
Much Love and Prayers~
James, Lori and Jonny Hurst
March 29th, 2008 at 7:42 pm
I first met Steph in 2003. What a blessing she has been to so many. Godspeed. I am uplifting you all in prayer.
March 30th, 2008 at 8:09 am
Steph, John, Jennifer and David,
I just wanted to send some love and prayers your way. You all are constantly on my mind. Love to you all.
Amy
Team Talent
March 30th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
Stephanie,
We brought you home from the hospital and you were the smallest and tiniest infant I had ever seen. The doctor released you only because he said you would do fine because you were a “fighter”. How right he was. Following his instructions, we fed you every two hours. At six weeks, even the doctor was amazed but correct in his assessment that you were a fighter. You were back on the charts.
I taught you to fish and hunt at an early age. You showed a love for the outdoors and were an eager student. I many times said you were like the son I never had. You have taught me many things as well including your special view of nature and your love of art and desire to help others. You have taught me far more than I have taught you.
Your devotion to God and your steadfast love for your family is an incredible example of the person you have become.
I love you so very much,
Dad
March 30th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
Dear Stephanie, Family & Friends,
After reading John’s post & the beautiful comments that followed, reality is sinking in. My overwhelming feelings that this strong, faithful & beautiful woman is out of options is beyond belief. I will continue to pray that all will be in God’s mercy. Stephanie, as you all know, is such a remarkable human being. I feel certain God will hold her in his hands & take her to her rightful place.
Love & prayers for all her family & friends. We are going to need His grace to get through this.
March 30th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
John, Steph, David & Jennifer,
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. The spirit with which Steph has lived and the grace, dignity, and courage you have all shown through this is an inspiration to us all. We have truly been blessed to have had Stephanie in our family. We pray for you that you may receive the strength and comfort you need. God bless you.
Paul, Lynn & Kristen
March 31st, 2008 at 4:58 pm
John this is from Your Auntie Ruby in Brooklyn Park,Minnesota.
Just wanted You to know that I have been following Steph. on her web sight and want You to know that We all Love You and Your Family and Our prays are with You. Love Auntie Ruby
April 2nd, 2008 at 5:41 am
John Iam writing to tell You that Aunt Sharon and Uncle Marv and all the kids send their Love and Prays to Your Family.We think of You daily. Please give Our Love to Steph,David,and Jennifer.
Love Auntie Ruby
April 4th, 2008 at 10:29 am
I spoke with your mom today, Stephanie. It seems the past two weeks of ‘energizer bunny’ antics have slowed considerably. Last week John could still marvel and chuckle about your little ‘funnies’….You saying ’stupid brain’ when a word would not come, wandering around inside the house, eating a bit, communicating at various levels, trying and being able to stay awake for long periods. Now you are sleeping more, becoming exhaustd with minimal exertion, eating EVEN less. John says your most talkative period seems to be in the wee hours. I read the lovely blog your dad left for you, and so many other outpourings of love and respect and well-wishes for peace and comfort. You have touched so many hearts and are so loved by so many….know that you are in our hearts forever and ever. Love, Jim, Connie, & Erin